Women who are too sexual aren’t taken seriously,
and women who aren’t sexual enough aren’t taken seriously.
Women who are conventionally attractive get valued solely for their sexual appeal;
women who aren’t conventionally attractive get dismissed for their lack of it.
Women who are conventionally attractive are assumed to be dumb bimbos;
women who aren’t conventionally attractive are assumed to be either bitter or desperate.
Women who are conventionally attractive get trivialized;
women who aren’t conventionally attractive get treated with pity and contempt.
We can’t win.